Have you ever had a theme keep popping up in your reading? Lately I’ve seen so many posts about having a support group. Writing is such a lonely business; it’s important to have a group behind you. Don’t believe me? Here’s some interesting facts you might enjoy:[1][2]
- S. Lewis had a writing group called Inklings that included J.R.R. Tolkien and other influential writers of that day.[3]
- Sidney Poitier helped Denzel Washington in his career.
- Fred Birney, high school journalism teacher, mentored Walter Cronkite.
- Stephen Spielberg counts Jerry Lewis as one of his mentors.
- And, MBT Ponderers was the first group to attend a My Book Therapy retreat.
GIGO stands for Garbage In, Garbage Out in computer lingo. If you input bad code, your output will go in the trash. The same principle applies to you. If you listen to negative comments, you will become negative. If you surround yourself with positive thoughts, then you can lift others up, too.
Author, speaker and former CEO of Thomas Nelson, Michael Hyatt recommends creating your own communities of learning, accountability, and/or encouragement. These can be private FB pages, brainstorming, mentoring, study groups – you get the idea.1 We’re so blessed to already be a part of My Book Therapy where we can share ideas, establish friendships, and learn craft skills from outstanding writers like Beth Vogt, Susie May Warren, Rachel Hauck, Lisa Jordan and so many others. And, if you’re a member of ACFW, there are online loops, chapters, zones and local groups. Or, consider genre groups such as the Faith, Hope and Love, Inc. chapter of RWA. Surround yourself with those whose goals meet or exceed yours and help them meet theirs as you reach for your own.
I can’t tell you how many times I’ve prayed about giving up. But each time I pray that prayer, I’ll get an answer in the form of an encouraging email, post or sometimes even a Skype call. I hate to think of where I’d be if I didn’t have my friends, my mentor or you. Remember: never lose an opportunity to surround yourself with those who care.
Who has been your biggest cheerleader? What tips can you offer for those looking for encouragement? To think about: who can you mentor?
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Angie and her husband live in South Carolina in the middle of a big wood. She’d love for you to join her as she encourages others on Joy on the Back Roads and Seriously Write.
[1] Who Mentored You? Thank them … and pass it on. Mentor a Child, President and Fellows of Harvard College
[2] The Mentor Hall of Fame, Peer Systems Consulting Group
[3] Why Your Peer Group Matters More Than You Think, Michael Hyatt
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I’ve been in a few critique groups and have found them priceless. Now I’m without one and it’s making me insane. The problem is finding others who’ve been at it for more than a decade and near my level (not bragging, but I’ve got the basics figured out). My perfect group would be 3 other YA/MG authors who’be written several novels and close to publication. Maybe I’m too picky?
Ron,
I just saw your comment! Nothing like being current on replies!
It is hard to find a group that works for you. Honestly, I think that your criteria sounds about right. You don’t want too many in the group or you can’t spend the time needed on their work. And it makes sense to me to want others in your genre, too.
I hope you’ve found a group by now. If not, let me know and I’ll see if I can think up some helpful ideas!
I’m hoping to find a critique group and coach from within MyBookTherapy. I just joined as a Premium Member and haven’t had time to explore all the features of the membership. Is this a realistic expectation or should I look to ACFW for critique group support?
I’m looking for a critique group whose members include those who know the language and craft of writing fiction, along with those who are learning this. The MBT Bleachers gave me a peek at what I needed to know in order to grow and useful discussions that move me forward. I’m looking forward to going Higher Up and Deeper In! : )
Do you have any tips on finding a writing coach? Do I look for a match in learning style, ministry focus, and/or genre? Are there other qualities I should consider?
Lindy,
I’m so sorry that I didn’t see this sooner. There are so many writers here that I’m sure you could find some that “speak the language.” If you haven’t found a group, please let me know and I’ll see what I can find out for you.
I hesitate to suggest that you make a list for your mentor or your writing group, for that matter. I think the best advice is to pray, pray, pray! After you’ve prayed, keep your eyes open for opportunities that He has for you.
I’ve always been amazed at how God works and gives us exactly what and who we need WHEN we need them. Conferences and workshops are great places to network, too.
Please send me an email at aearndt at gmail dot com if you have any more questions.
Thanks so much,
Angie