Why writing your book might be more a pregnancy than a project

by David Rawlings, @DavidJRawlings

Even though we might set out as writers to work on our book as a project, it might pay for us to think about it more as a pregnancy.  

Many people refer to their book as their “book baby” anyway.  They conceived it, nurtured it, and spent time with it at the expense of others. They spent sleepless nights thinking about it. They took great care in naming it, and took it more-than-personally when it was criticized.

So why think of writing your book as a pregnancy? Mainly because it helps you with that strange creative downtime called post-launch.

When we look at our work in terms of projects, it can feel like the end date is the end of our thinking. I’ve worked in the corporate sector for nearly thirty years, and I’ve lost count of the times a team has celebrated the end of a project and then moved on, almost giving no further thought to what they’ve produced.

I’ve felt that temptation, and I’ve spoken to other authors who’ve also felt it – particularly first-time authors. There’s a sense of “what now?”

I launched The Baggage Handler a few months ago. A lot of work went into it, and a lot of focus went into the launch. The launch was exciting, daunting, and satisfying. But in the moments after the launch the gloss faded and other writing called, and I saw that launching a book wasn’t as simple as just ticking a box and moving on. My book baby needed to be nurtured. Cared for. I needed to market it, answer questions about it, and respond to kind readers’ words about it.  Prepare to give it a sibling.

The big lesson here was that the launch is where the work starts. The same as the day a child is delivered. When our kids were born, those first few moments and days were taking a breath and savoring the moment, but also ensuring the plans we put in place made sure our child thrived.

So it might make sense to view the day our book is launched as a birth. It’s something to celebrate, something to feel deeply satisfied about, but it’s also a reminder that once our book baby is cradled on the shelves of a real or virtual bookstore, the work begins.

So if you’re planning for a launch, you might want to think about its delivery in terms of what you will need to do after it’s born. I found it helped me keep up the momentum of my book baby’s birth.


When three people take the wrong suitcase from baggage claim, their lives change forever.
A hothead businessman coming to the city for a showdown meeting to save his job.
A mother of three hoping to survive the days at her sister’s house before her niece’s wedding.
And a young artist pursuing his father’s dream so he can keep his own alive.
When David, Gillian, and Michael each take the wrong suitcases from baggage claim, the airline directs them to retrieve their bags at a mysterious facility in a deserted part of the city. There they meet the enigmatic Baggage Handler, who shows them there is more in their baggage than what they have packed, and carrying it with them is slowing them down in ways they can’t imagine. And they must deal with it before they can leave.
In this modern-day parable about the burdens that weigh us down, David Rawlings issues an inspiring invitation to lighten the load.

David Rawlings is a based in South Australia, a sports-mad father-of-three who loves humor and a clever turn-of-phrase. Over a 25-year career he has put words on the page to put food on the table, developing from sports journalism and copywriting to corporate communication. Now in fiction, he entices readers to look deeper into life with stories that combine the everyday with a sense of the speculative, addressing the fundamental questions we all face.

His debut novel – The Baggage Handler – hit the shelves in March 2019 and is available where all good books are sold! Books: http://books2read.com/Baggage  ~ Website: www.davidrawlings.com.au ~ Facebook: David Rawlings – Author ~ Instagram: davidrawlingsauthor ~ Twitter: @DavidJRawlings

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