by Kariss Lynch, @Kariss_Lynch
At my first conference, I was a ball of nerves. My hands shook as I passed my one-sheet across the table to the editor. My voice rattled as I flew through my pitch. And my adrenaline crashed as soon as I left the room.
The second year, I felt prepared. My nerves still sang, but my hands and voice stayed steady. I met my agent and editor that year and went on to push out three books under my contract.
That first conference was six years ago, and I’ve learned a lot about the industry since then. I’m met incredible people, mentors, friends, and creatives. I’m working toward a new contract now, but I no longer sit down across the table from an industry professional a ball of nerves. It’s not because I’m published now or because I know more than the next person.
I’ve simply learned more tips and tricks along the way.
- Be YOU: Your uniqueness will make you stand out when you sit across from agents and editors. Nerves come when you are trying to impress. Peace comes when you confidently and humbly claim who God has made you and walk into the room ready to mingle with others who may be nervous, too.
- Prepare content: A business card is a handy tool to have with you at the conference that will help you put faces to names when you get home. I also go prepared with a one-page to at least put on the table while I am talking with editors and agents. Some will look at it during our discussion, few end up taking it home, some ask for it before you even begin talking. Regardless, it is wise to have one handy.
- Engage with others: So many writers are introverted by nature, but even if that is the case, it doesn’t mean you are incapable of interacting with people. When you sit down at the table, engage with those around you. Connect with the intention of hopefully building relationships that will last as your journey progresses.
- Capitalize on the experience: Don’t sign up for so many editor and agent appointments that you miss the classes and workshops. The appointments are important. The classes will help you grow so that you have a greater chance of signing a contract. Find a balance, and don’t miss all the opportunities conference offers!
- Remember who is in control: At the end of the day, I had to learn that though I desperately wanted a contract to make all my writing dreams come true, the editor or agent sitting across from me did not hold the keys to that dream. The Lord does. I can freely sit down, have a conversation, share my heart and my story, and leave confident that God is in control.
Conferences are a beautiful way to grow, build relationships, and network. Don’t let nerves get in the way. Go prepared and then watch and see what the Lord does through your obedience to show up.
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Kariss Lynch writes contemporary romance about characters with big dreams, adventurous hearts, and enduring hope. She is the author of the Heart of a Warrior series and loves to encourage her readers to have courage. In her free time, she hangs out with her family and friends, explores the great outdoors, and tries not to plot five stories at once. Connect with her at karisslynch.com, or on Facebook, Instagram, or Goodreads.